Reasons

Another reason I ended up moving and essentially going into hiding is because of a stalker I've been dealing with for a long time now. I got a restraining order against him and that stopped him for awhile but when I was back in NC(I lived there awhile with my ex, he has family there and worked there) I saw my ex boyfriend, I'll just call him JL. When the restraining order went into effect the first time it stipulated that neither one of us could post about each other online on message boards or blogs. JL started a blog about me, writing it as if he were me then turned around and claimed I was writing it to malign and slander him because he was such a good upstanding christian man which was not true, that was just facade. He then went on to send harassing and threatening emails to the pastor of our church writing them as if he were me. He got me thrown out of the church, he got all his friends and my friends to turn against me, he managed to get them to harass me as well, so much so they would drive by my house, sit around my house and watch me at all hours of the day and night. He or one of his friends would follow me, find out the places I frequented such as cafes and coffee shops and would talk to the employees there so they would spy on me for him. He would tell them I was harassing and stalking him when it was the other way around.
He would call me, skype me mostly so I could never trace it, sometimes as many as a dozen times a day. When I got my number changed he somehow got it again, maybe my friends, maybe someone else.
I managed to move but he found out where I lived and started harassing me again.
Eventually my ex and I moved to Florida. That didn't stop the harassment, he would still call both of us. When we'd get our numbers changed he get them again and start it all over again.

Finally I got the opportunity to leave both Florida and NC behind hopefully for good.